Terminology

Let's have a look at the traditional terminology used for spiritual direction.
The term spiritual direction describes a discipline in the Christian tradition, probably starting with the Desert Fathers around 300-600AD.  Initially found mainly in the Roman Catholic Church; however, spiritual direction has gained interest in different denominations. 
Traditionally, spiritual direction focused on clergy, and those with a commitment to the religious life and a director would often direct and suggest what the directee was to do.

In more modern times, spiritual direction is about having an intentional spiritual conversation. The director walks alongside the directee, rather than in front and showing the way, helping the person explore what was said, or delving into a shared experience.
So I wonder if the term spiritual reflector or soul companion may be a better way of describing this intentional working relationship, where what is shared is reflected back—helping the other further along the road towards a deeper awareness of self and the divine.

Although I offer a mirror and explore with the directee the nudging of the Spirit/God/Divine Presence in their lives, I think that soul companion is a more accurate description. What speaks to me is a sense of equality in the wording.
What do we mean by spiritual direction? Ultimately it is about a person growing in awareness, responding to, paying attention to God's communication. In whatever way the directee understands God/divine presence/ the wholly other etc. It is about growing in intimacy with this God and what that means for their daily lives.

The term 'directee' is slightly awkward to substitute. Changing is only helpful if there is a viable alternative. There is a possibility for 'friend' or 'client', however this does not give the right vibe. I wondered briefly about the term 'traveller', as we are on a journey. Somehow it does not sit well with me. So directee it remains, for now.

I think all people are spiritual, all people ask questions about the point of life, their purpose etc. But not all people are religious, in the sense that they are part of a church community. They may be 'religious' in the way they exercise, or engage with their hobbies. I see my role as a spiritual companion as a carer for the soul of those I am privileged to accompany on their journey. It is a matter of finding the right words and terminology that works between two people who are engaged in an intentional spiritual conversation.